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Youth Connect Blog

This blog is created by young adults for the young adult population.

Generation Gap

Posted by: mirian

Tagged in: lifestyle

Most parents wish their teenagers were the same way they were at that age, but that is impossible. Teenagers are seeking independence from their parents, they want to feel like an adult even though they don't act like such majority of the time.

This can lead to many conflicts between the parents and the teenager.  Parents need to understand that times have changed, parents and teens need to be more open about how they feel, tension and unexpressed concerns can lead to anger and frustration. 

However teens also need to understand that their parents just want the best for them, teenagers not always do the right thing.

The best way to fix generation gap problems or disputes, is to talk things over, make an agreement between the parent and the teenager.


Abusive Relationships

Posted by: mirian

Tagged in: lifestyle , health

School is supposed to be one of the best years of our lives.

However, when you find that special person you want to be with, he or she may be someone completely different.  Abusive relationships happen in every ethic group, class and education level.

You or someone you know might be in a relationship that is abusive - tell someone - it is not your fault, your friends fault or anyone's fault.  However, it is you, your friend or anyone's point to get themselves out of an abusive relationship by seeking help or assistance.  Abusive relationships can lead to gruesome outcomes, including: lowered self-esteem on the victim or even worst, death.  Some of the attributes that can point to a relationship possibly being abuse or potentially becoming abusive are:

  • Jealousy
  • Physical and Mental Violence
  • Humiliation
  • Drug Abuse
  • Sexual Pressure
Teens going through this kind of situations can search for help from school, their counselors or even from family members, you can also visit these websites for more information.

 


Eating Disorders

Posted by: mirian

Tagged in: lifestyle , health

The United States has the highest rate of individuals living with eating disorders and it is most common among teens.

Eating disorders can developed early on.  Most likely eating disorders are developed from fear of becoming overweight, wanting to be accepted by others or wanting to mimic the body type of the girls they've seen in magazines and on TV.  There is a fine line between staying healthy and becoming obsessive over weight. 

What they don't realize is anorexia or bulimia can lead to early onset of health problems, it can affect the esophagus, metabolism and overall bodily functions.  Surprisingly anorexia or bulimia are also affecting teenage boys.

Most girls who have an eating disorder think that they're over weight, when in reality, they're underweight, this is a problem affecting many teens nation wide.  However they're not alone, there are various organizations established to provide support and help to teens and individuals who suffer from eating disorders, body dismorphic disorder, etc.

http://helpguide.org/mental/eating_disorder_treatment.htm

http://www.something-fishy.org/


The Right Schedule for You

Posted by: mirian

Tagged in: school , lifestyle , jobs tools , college , career , activities

The life of a college student can be hectic, with work, school and possibly volunteer, life can become a jumbled mess.  If your stuck in a similar situation, you don't have to sacrifice any of the extra activities you do in your normal life, you just have to learn how to put everything together.

One thing you can do is get yourself an agenda so you can write down important dates, such as:  quizzes, midterms, finals, assignments, and work schedule so  you will be able to refer to it to remind you of the task you need to complete. 

Depending on your classes and what time you need to attend school, you can look for a job that fits your schedule, whether its everyday or only specific days, you can also fit in activities such as exercise time, or a hobbie, or even save yourself a day of study and homework, so you don't have to stress about having time to do school work.


Drug and Alcohol Abuse

Posted by: mirian

Tagged in: lifestyle , health , activities

Your probably tired of hearing the same lectures about not using drugs, staying drug-free and not drinking alcohol until you are twenty-one (21).  However, you'd be surprised to know that many teens under the legal drinking and smoking age are using drugs and alcohol. 

Cigarettes and alcohol are known as gateway drugs, meaning that these drugs and their use creates a greater likelihood of the use of  illicit (illegal) drugs such as marijuana, cocaine and LSD. 

The D.A.R.E program teaches K-5 students about staying drug free through activities such as sports, clubs and support like family,  friends or spouse helps in providing methods of stress release that takes away the need for the use of drugs or alcohol.  Teens and teenagers in urban areas are most vulnerable to drugs, lack of extracurricular activities and parental guidance can negatively affect the ability to make the right choices.
Teens that also consume drugs and alcohol at this young age tend to slack more in school and are at risk of becoming dependent, which means they would require drugs or alcohol daily to function.


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